How do you actually quit?!

Question

Hi everyone, I'm new here! English is my second language, so please forgive me for any grammar mistakes!
 I'm 22 years old and my husband and i have been TTC for 7 months already. I'm never late with my periods, so every time I feel cramps i get so sad realizing that it didn't work out this cycle either... 
Every time I talk with pregnant ladies all I hear is "just don't stress about it, and it will happened" or " we conceived when we actually quit" 
So my question to you, how do you actually quit for TTC? Does it happen physically and psychologically? How do you even stop thinking about this topic whatsoever???!!! please help, I'm a very emotional person and I take everything too close to my heart...

Answer

You are right you don't really the girls that got pregnant actually mean they did "plan" to have sex that day because of the fertile window. But i think the mindset was more like well we are not really trying or maybe totally somewhere else with their heads.
​For me it took 9 months and i was sad too every time.. The month i got pregnant we planned a trip to the sauna and as you know this is not good for sperm so we planned this after my fertile window but my egg didn't jump so we went to the sauna and a few days later i felt my egg growing and thought oke we will try but it probably won't work. But it did.
​So don't give up and just try to have fun with your partner. And maybe if af shows you go do something crazy you can't when you are pregnant!  
Good luck!

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