boyfriends first?

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okay I don't know why but everytime I think about my boyfriend having sex with any other girl I get a sick feeling on my stomach and I want to know like every little detail about the girl, does that make me crazy or it this normal? I want to know where she lives, what she looked like, if she was good, if she was better than me? someone give me advice or something please. I've talked to him about her a little bit but then you can tell he doesn't wanna talk about it anymore and so I just keep it to myself..

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well are not alone! I am the exact same, and it bothers me that he's been with other girls before but then I tell myself that it's the past, I have one myself and what matters now is that we're together. So don't worry, he's with you, not them :p

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It's not uncommon, but it is kind of immature to feel that way. If you're going to be in a relationship you have to accept his past and not be bothered by it. I was only with one other man before my current bf but he's been with over 20 women! It doesn't bother me because I see it as he chose me to be his girl so that's what matters. If he is with you, then feel secure in that, girl!

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I don't want to know his, and I don't want to share mine. It might make me insecure to think about it, when I'd rather just trust that what he and I have is the best for both of us.

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You for sure aren't alone on this one! I've done and have thought those same things, and have felt pretty similar to how you are feeling. 
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​I believe personally, that we all can't help but wonder about what we don't know, but what matters now is that he is with you! 
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​I hope you feel better about this situation soon!

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My boyfriend had sex one other time before me, except he was young and pressured into it by the other girl. I never bring it up because it makes him feel like an asshole. He's the sweetest man I have ever known, so I hate the thought of him with another person. It still bugs me once in a while, but I don't worry about it often. If it's really bothering you, you could always just bring it up. Right now you may think that holding your emotions inside of you is a good thing, but in the future it could end up ruining your relationship. Be honest with him! He'll most likely appreciate your honesty and he'll open up about his past experiences. Good luck!:)

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I'm the same exact way...not sure why! He hates talking about it so I try not to bring it up but it's hard not too!

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I'm not bothered just curious.  It is part of his story and how he grew and changed before me. He had an STD test before us so that was what was important.  Now, sex while dating me is obviously a different story!

boyfriends first?

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