Jealous/Hurt/FRUSTRATED ??????

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Going into the 21st month TTC.....its getting so depressing and literally everybody is pregnant!! All these unfit mothers out here and not to mention 2 girls from my little cousins 9th grade class is pregnant and im like wtf??? I had a huge falling out with a friend of mine because she aborted 3 babies in the past 2 years because it was with a married man!!! When is it going to happen for me??? I eat right, exorcise, finacially/mentally stable, mature, educated and nothing is wrong with me or my DH!!! UGHHHH soooo frustrating!!! When is going to be my turn??

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Debra, I understand your frustrations completely. My hubby and I have been TTC #1 for over 4 years. 4 years and 3 months to be exact (but whose counting ?) although I'm not surrounded by women aborting their babies like your friend, I am constantly surrounded and faced with people getting pregnant left and right without trying or being planned. To make matters even more difficult I have 2 SILs that got pregnant 1 month apart and neither of them were trying. One had her baby in June the other had hers about 3 days ago. I'm happy for them but each month that goes by, it gets harder and more painful to accept. But I'm holding on to my hope and faith. I'm just trying to trust in God's timing and plans for my life. Don't give up hope, stay strong, it will happen for you ?

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I understand your frustration. I haven't been trying near as long as you, but my sister in law is 17 and pregnant with her 3rd, with a 3rd father, and my good friend has made the choice to end her 2nd

Jealous/Hurt/FRUSTRATED ??????

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