What to expect on my first night

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I'm 20... My honeymoon is in 6months. I'm  Still a virgin.  Pretty much scared to death about the first night.. Does anyone have advice on what to expect??

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Just relax :) It's so wonderful you have waited for marriage, and it will be even more special for y'all!  It may be a little awkward at first, but it will definitely be wonderful once y'all relax.  I would suggest start slowly, cuddle and kiss, and it will honestly just be natural to go the rest of the way after that! 
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​Congrats on your engagement and your upcoming marriage! :)

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My husband and I were virgins too! It makes everything so special ? biggest thing I wish I would have known is to use lube! Just a super simple, non smelling kind. Makes a world of difference. It definitely takes a few times doing it to figure things out, but it's awesome when you do. Just have fun, and make sure to just relaxxxxx. ❤️

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Congratulations! I was sooo nervous on my wedding night! Make sure you have eaten (I didn't eat much at our reception and felt sick when we got to the hotel.) Don't try to be too "fancy," keep your attire simple. Less is more :) You will be with the man you love and he will be careful with you. If it's too much, TELL HIM, and he will slow down. Sure, men have desires, but he will want to please you, especially for your first time! Hope this helps!

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Go slow slow slow! Don't put pressure on yourself to have sex the very first night. If you are leaving on your honeymoon the night after the wedding you will definitely be exhausted. If not, it is still good to go slow and make sure you are both good and ready. You guys have a lifetime together so don't put too much pressure on yourself! I highly recommend using lubrication.

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http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101

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Congrats ! My advise is don't expect anything so u won't be disappointed or concerned about what happns and what doesn't... Just enjoy yourself and have fun

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I was 20 when I had sex for the first time with my husband. It was about a year before our wedding, but I can still relate to your fears. The thing that helped the most was that he was gentle and went super slow. If you are uncomfortable going "all the way" the first night, letting him explore with his fingers will help condition you for when you have intercourse so you may not feel the pain some women get their first time. I would describe it more as "pressure" than pain. Light bleeding is also totally normal :) good luck!

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