I am currently 21 weeks pregnant and I have a 6 year old. I need advice because my cousins wife decided to invite herself to my house tomorrow. She lives two hours away and she has an apt down where I live. Normally I wouldn't care but lately all I have been wanting to do is clean, organize my house and be around my son and husband. My cousins wife is bringing two of her kids down tkmorrow with her and they are out of control kids. And I know she is going to try and leave them with me tomorrow when she goes to her apt. The other thing is that her apt isn't until 3pm and she said she will be at my house at 11am to hang out and she isn't going home until 9pm. I just don't know if I can handle 11am-9pm knowing my house will be a mess, I don't want to babysit two out of control kids, and my son is on a strict bed time schedule because he starts school next week. I don't want to break my son schedule because they are here not to mention my husband works long hours and our alone time is when our son goes to bed and we won't be able to have that time if they are here. What should I do? A part of my feels like I am making a big deal out of it but the other part of me knows I am a hormonal crazy person if it doesn't go my way hahaha. Any advice will help!