Descipline a 3 almost 4 year old boy?

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I have a son next month turning 4 Years old..i need help how to descipline him nothing works..if we take his toys away he gets worst time out doesnt work either he just starts crying & yelling it gets to the point where he starts kicking things if we dont listen to him or give him what he wants..what would be the best way to descipline him??help