Sex & Relationships
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I can't orgasm. Just can't.
I'm on the shot and apparently that's a common side effect.
It used to bother my boyfriend because he felt like it was his fault, but almost 2 years later, it's obviously not from lack of trying.
We've tried SO MANY positions, toys, lubes, etc: nothing. It doesn't bother him anymore, thank god, but he's so sweet and keeps trying to find new ways to "get me there".
I never had sex before the shot so obviously I have no idea what I'm missing but, um, not gonna lie, it's still frustrating.
Especially because he's a fan of giving oral (I'm lucky, I know, most guys aren't) and I can't even fully enjoy it.
The most frustrating of all of it is the fact that sometimes, I actually feel a build like it might happen, the. It instantly vanishes out of nowhere without warning.
I've even looked up "tips", like relaxing and just letting things happen but nothing works.
I'm glad I've finally found a forum to discuss this in and let it all out.