You want a baby but your partner doesn't?

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What would you do if you want a baby and your partner doesn't?

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I think the only way is to talk about it until you  both agree to get pregnant. Lying about being on birth control etc is just going to make him resent you and put a big rift in yor relationship if he found out down the track

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I a miscarriage about 2 years ago and we have always talked about it and he always said I'll happen. But few months back I got baby fever really bad and he started to warm up to the idea and he said okay but we never really plan ov weeks and stuff like that last month I had a miscarriage and now his more caring he got me opk and kept up with my ov week and  takes his vitamins and bought me prenatals his very sweet and caring takes time but when he realizes that it's something he wants too ill be a good experience as a couple we grew closer to one another ❤️ iam lucky to have such a caring man as my husband 
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​Today he texted me and said sorry that we haven't had sex since he comes home tired and said he was gonna try to leave work early so we can do the deed lol 
​His very caring and stuff like that proves to me he really wants a baby and not just doing it to please me 
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I would never advise having a baby unless your partner is on the same page! As much joy as a baby brings, they also bring stress and financial differences not just on you but on your relationship and if your partner doesn't wanna be a parent right now, he may not change his mind once it happens! Good luck!

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It depends on what is more important to you. Having a baby of your relationship? If he really loves you it will happen when your both ready so be patient. Don't try and convince him into it because you need to respect his wishes just as much as he does for you

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I wouldn't marry or date someone who didn't want kids. That's a total dealbreaker

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My husband was always the one who wanted kids first , in fact I wanted to wait another year or two to ttc again (we have a 2yr old)since i love my career and it can be physically draining and long hours with heavy trays if I'm doing ortho but my husband has been persistent and a gentleman about it and as a couple I want to please him and I also feel so honored that he wants me to birth his kids .after many talks I decided it was time to ttc . It's not cool to force someone into it tho at first when I wasn't for it I was sort of annoyed when the subject came up since I knew I didn't want to but he learned to approach me in a different manner and not pressure me just inspire me if that makes sense ? Gl

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I want to but DH doesn't... He says "I already have one and ones good enough for me don't need anymore" and honestly it kind of makes me feel like I'm not good enough to have a child with him or what not and it makes me upset!! And anytime I try and talk to him he says "forget it it's not happening then says I already... blah blah" I get mad and it's just not a happy time don't know how to take it I guess

You want a baby but your partner doesn't?

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