If your fiancé had old pictures of him kissing his ex (and you have no kids together) would you leave him?

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My husband had picture of his ex kissing and what not after we got together I told him it bothered me especially since I had pictures that I had deleted of my ex and I not even kissing but just hanging with friends because he wanted me to delete them... After we talked he got rid of them and if I found others I just deleted or tossed them out. Talk to him about if before reacting :)

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I don't have a problem with the fact that my husband existed before he met me. He had an entire life, including other women he loved. And I loved other men before we met. I think it's unfair to ask someone to erase part of their life because of insecurity. Lack of trust is a much bigger issue than the fact that he has old pictures.

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I still have a picture of me and my previous boyfriend kissing. My current boyfriend of a year found it when were packing up my apartment. Honestly it was in a closet and I forgot it was there. He told me to throw it away and I told him I wouldn't. He got super mad but we talked about it when he calmed down and basically my reasoning was that yes that chapter in my life happened. I'm a pack rat I believe in saving little momentos and having that picture is the last momento I kept from mine and my exs relationship. Do I have feelings for him still? Not at all. I than showed my current boyfriend all the stuff I have saved of our relationship and that one picture is nothing compared to that. he seemed to kind of understand where I was coming from.

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I feel it was still apart of his life! I actually can't understand why when people break up they delete pictures! It was still a moment in your life, and you must have learned something from it, it's still part of what made you and brought you to where u are

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I was cleaning out my room at my parents house and I had a picture of me and my ex at prom. I didn't know what to do with it, I hate the guy (he cheated on me) but my mom said that it's a good memory to hold. My bf also told me (he helped me get through breaking up with my ex so he understands which helped a lot) that he still has pictures of his exs too. Talk to your bf about it. If you don't have feelings for your ex, he should understand a little, because at one point you were happy. Just a suggestion good luck

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Depends where he has it. Maybe he just had it and forgot about it? People have a past and you have to accept that when you get with someone.

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I would ask him to delete them if he has no feelings left.

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Was it saving it or it jut happen to be found cause he was cleaning
​When I moved in I found a letter from his ex and he trew it away it didn't mean nothing to him depends on how he reacted to it if he still loves her his gonna keep it

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I'd burn those pictures tho to make a statement of his disrespect.

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Depends. Would he wanna keep em?