Do I break up with my boyfriend because I need to find myself... Or is that stupid?

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Ok... So my boyfriend and me almost together for a whole year... We have like phone sex... And I love him and stuff but.. I just I feel like I only know the person I am when I'm with him... And like all my fiends go out an stuff but he's not that type of person so we never go out... I just I want to be able to explore myself individually ... And when I explain that to him... He's gets super suicidal and wants to kill himself :/

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Honestly, run as fast as you can. The suicidak stuff... That's so controlling and manipulative.

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There are so many reasons why you time is good. Take it. His threats of suicide are ridiculous and controlling. Go do you for a while. If y'all are meant to be it'll happen if not that's alright too

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If you're not growing together, then the only other way to grow is apart. If he can't understand that, then that's a sure sign that he isn't it. Take time for yourself, he will be ok. Just be careful with the choice of words and your tone when letting him know that being with him is not something that you want right now.

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He needs psychiatric help. Run away fast!

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Please leave. I was in this same situation with a suicidal boyfriend and things came to a head when he told me that if I left him he was going to tie me up in his barn and skin me alive. Please do not put yourself in a situation to be told these things. Leave.

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You need to do you, if you guys do not like doing the same things. You need to have your time too where you can go out and do things that you like and not feel guilty about it

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Yes take your time, I feel everyone needs an opportunity to find themselves. If he gets suicidal call the police at least that way you know he's safe and it will be out of your hands. Wishing you the best

Do I break up with my boyfriend because I need to find myself... Or is that stupid?

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