TTC after miscarriage. Help.

So my fiance and I had a miscarriage a month ago when the baby was 8 weeks. My doctor told us that we could try again after my first normal period. When did you ladies try again after that heart break? We really want a little peanut but don't wanna try so soon after my miscarriage in case it causes some problems. (I haven't has a t flow yet, fyi, so we're not trying)