Boyfriend doesn't want to talk babies. Even thought were TTC ?

Question

We are TTC but he doesn't want to talk about it with me until I am pregnant. I want to start discussing names or potential names etc. But he doesn't even want to talk about TTC. He just wants it to happen and then talk about things. Which is kind of upsetting because now I feel I'm TTC on my own even though it takes 2.

Answer

Maybe he doesn't want to get his hopes up too much, my husband and I just got our BFP and he hasn't been showing any emotions towards it, I asked why and he said that after our chemical pregnancy he just doesn't want to get attached to quickly.. I think men tend to bottle up their emotions so that they come across as strong so I wouldn't worry too much x

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I think that is normal for most men. Getting pregnant is the main concern 1st. They just could not bother thinking about names n baby stuff when you are not even pregnant yet. That doesn't mean they not being supportive. Mine is the same. He is very open to the idea of ttc. He involved more on our 2nd cycle. When i start talking about baby names n so on, he said " let's try getting pregnant first" .

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My partners like that 
​But due to chemical last cycle and late for af 12 days this one he was guttered, I'm happy for him not to talk about it if it put less stress on him 
​I'd hate for him to have performance problems all because I pushed him that would just make it worse and would became a nasty circle just an example of what can happen

Boyfriend doesn't want to talk babies. Even thought were TTC ?

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