Hi ladies, I need your help...

On 9-10dpo I was very tired and couldn't stop sleeping to the point I took holiday from work, 11dpo I had random waves of nausea but just figured it was my macaroni cheese ? but today, 12dpo its 3 days before AF is due and for as long as I can remember, I always have pms at least 5 days before, very sore bb's, cramps etc but I'm having absolutely nothing which is unusual. Has anyone experienced this? And what was your outcome?