Is it over?

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How do you know when you're no longer in love with your SO? I feel like everytime we fight he wants to blame it on me and then we don't talk for days even when I do bring something up to him in a calming way. I'm getting so tired of feeling this way and yes, I've told him countless times but nothing's changed. I feel I'm falling out of love with him becuz of it..

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Maybe it's time to move around... Take a break apart and see if u miss each other then ull know for sure what to do next...

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I believe love is a choice not a feeling. The only way you can know if it's over is if you consciously make the decision not to love him anymore. The feelings of love can come and go but commitment can last forever if you choose.

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What I would do is stop and asses the situation. Is it healthy for my children to see us fighting and then not talking? Is it healthy for them to learn these copping skills? Is it healthy for them to be put in the middle? Is this healthy for their self esteem? I would remind myself that my relationship isn't just about two people. If we were not able to fix our relationship what would be the best thing for our bambinos? Get help or get out. You are teaching your children skills they will use for the rest of their lives.

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You are the only one who can say it's over if you are becoming unhappy then yes consider a break up. Being unhappy in a relationship is never healthy. However, your relationship might just be in a "funk" maybe a change of some sort. Take a vacation  someplace you both never would have thought of goin it'll be adventurous. If you don't already have, try a date night. Also, maybe even spicing up the bedroom activity. Just some of my thoughts but you need to take a step back and see how you feel about your SO and where your feelings are at. At the end of the day you are the only one who can know what is best for yourself   Hope this helps a little and I wish you the best of luck.

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