Consent

Katy • 24 • Queer • Feminist • Married • TTC with my wife shortcrazygirl.tumblr.com
What it is- ongoing, enthusiastic, clear, revocable and ~absolutely necessary~.
How to consent-
"Yes!"
"I like that"
"I want you"
"Keep going"
"Don't stop"
How to revoke/deny consent-
"No!"
"no"
"Stop"
"Don't"
"I'm not ready"
"I don't like that" 
Even staying quiet can mean you don't consent. 
Even if you don't say "no", or try to fight, if it's something you don't want, you are not consenting. If they ask a hundred times, you say "no" 99 times and "yes" once to stop their asking, that's NOT consent. If they make you afraid to say "no" it's NOT consent. If they're your spouse or your partner, if you've had sex before, if you've had sex with other people, if they 'love you' 
YOU CAN STILL SAY NO. 
Remember: ongoing, enthusiastic, clear, revocable, and necessary.