When do you tell your family?

Tiffany • About to get divorced with two children and prego with baby #3 eta 6/17/15
Now I already have two other children (9&5) and they were "surprises" in my life so telling my family was difficult but since this child is planned I wanted to think of a special way to tell everyone. We were thinking about telling them all on thanksgiving. Now you must know that my family is African American and my husband and his family are cambodian so I'd like to tell them in different ways. Any ideas?