Baby Before Marriage?

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For me marriage is just a piece of paper.  I feel like I am his wife and he is my husband so I think as long as your well committed why not.

Marriage doesn't guarantee anything these days

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My DF and I decide to ttc in the first year of our relationship. We were both 35 and wanted kids right away. We are now ttc #2 and we aren't getting married until 2016. Some people have kids with their SO and never get married. It all depends on what makes you happy

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I'm open to that if my daughter choses that for herself later on in life. I chose to wait to get married (@23) & to have a baby (@26). 
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​I have a sister who didn't and it was sort of frowned upon but it's because we were raised under a strict Catholic "old school" way. My parents got over it though lol
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​To each their own!

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My SO and I are not married, we wanted to start a family but my father passed away two years ago, I still can't handle the idea of walking down the isle without him there to give me away... What should be a day of joy would just be too gut wrenching hard for me, my mother supports us TTC and we have lived together for three years so to each their own.

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I'm really against sex outside of a marriage.

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I feel the same as Felicia. My fiancé and I have been together for almost two years, lived together for almost the same amount of time, and have been TTC for about three months. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else and if you feel that way and are ready for a baby, go for it. Everyone has their own views, but I think if you know your SO, and are ready, that's great.

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Go for it! Lifes to short. if thats what you both want & you are 100% sure you are with the one you love & want to be with for the rest of your life then there is no problem what so ever. A ring doesn't aways show how much someone loves you?