Rape?

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Does being raped count as losing your virginity? Or would you say the person after? Just that I was 13 and physically made to have sex with someone whilst crying and screaming trying not to go through with this but he made me anyway, (sorry I think referring to it as rape is horrible) or would you say the person I first chosen to have sex with is who has my v?

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Hope you're doing well now love! You are a virgin until you have chosen who you have sex with.

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I can speak from own experience. I was sexually abused when I was 4-6 years. By the time I was in a relationship with a guy, the very same question came up in my head. 
​I consider my first time the time I CHOOSED to have sex and also choose the person to share this experience with. 
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​Virginity doesn't have to be something solely physical and this is  even more important for us who didn't have the chance to choose, to have in mind. 
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​Take care of yourself.

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I believe that it is your choice to decide. When u were 13, you did not make the choice to have sex with him, so I believe the first person u decided to give yourself to is the one who u "lost" your V too. But it's all up to you, you have the right to decide for yourself :)

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I'm sorry you have had to indure such cruelty... I hope that you are doing well now, your a Virgin until you choose to lose it yourself so consider with who you want to be with. I hope you have a good support network around you hun x

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Medically speaking, no you are not a virgin any more. However that is something that is YOUR business and you doctors business. Mentally and emotionally there is nothing wrong with still considering yourself a virgin. I'm sorry you had to endure what you did, but don't ever let yourself feel less than because of it.

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