Is it normal to be jealous of husbands sexual past???

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Just curious if anyone else out there is hurt by husbands past?? Or was at the beginning of the relationship .if so what helped you overcome these feelings?

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I get that it's human but it never made sense to me, unless he killed someone or raped someone then what he did when he wasn't with you isn't any of your business. Same thing with you, it's not his business what you've done when you weren't with him

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My husband was my first, but I wasn't his. I had dated a LOT more than him, but I never had intercourse bc I wanted it to be with the right one. His relationships before me were longer than mine previously. Does it bother me? Yes. Do I let it get in the way of our relationship? No. He put the ring on MY finger. He's having a baby with ME. He chose me... And now we've been together longer than any other relationship either of us has had. I'm not his first, but I am his forever. That trumps all, in my book.

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The Past Is In Past ....And the What the Future Beholds For Me And Him Is Our Own Dedtiny ....U Cant hold anytjing Against Him cause u Werent With Him

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I never cared,  until he cheated on me with 3 girls from his "past" and various new ones he met while on TDY and Deployment. Then,  it all mattered.  We've been married nearly 2 years and it is sometimes so hard for me to get past it all.  While he's TDY or Deployed, I can be a nervous wreck. 
Before the cheating I didn't care one little bit.  We were friends for several months before we dated so I knew LOTS of history. I used to tease him about the pity sex he gave some idiot the night before we officially started seeing one another.

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I used to be but I soon realised they where just "sex" I'm the one he has married, had children with and settled down with. With me he makes love with them it was just to get his end of to put it blunt. The things me and him have done he and I have never done with other people (oral sex) because to us that is a really intimate act. I've had a colourful past that due to his jelious nature I havnt lied about but I've Defo just told the main parts to so who am I to judge or be jelious of him when he can except me. I don't know his true amount of partners but I know it's a lot.

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Jealousy is a natural thing, unfortunately, it also makes you crazy! His and your pasts are in the past, there isn't any going back and changing it. I try to remind myself how I would feel if my partner were jealous of something I had done before I was with them

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I had A LOT of issues with my husband's sexual history. I was a virgin when we got together, and I knew his past was rather extensive. I'm of an extremely jealous nature, and it took me several years to overcome that jealousy, but after he continually demonstrated that I was his priority now, and that they truly were his past, I moved on (for the most part, anyway!) :p I've actually become really good friends with his ex-fiancée, too. Trust is pretty crazy.

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I was when we first got married one because he talked about it a lot when we were around others or "thought" they were stories of us... And two because his ex would still try and contact him because she wanted him back... I told him how I felt and how things hurt me.. He blocked her changed his number and stopped talking about his past sex life and things are fine now :)

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My husbands past sex life is just that, the past. In the beginning I use to ask him if was better with me ofcourse. But I got over it. He tells me all the time even after almost 3years of being together that I will always be the best all around for him. N my past sex life doesn't matter to him anymore either. We are also very open. Can talk bout past experiences good or bad to enhance our sex life too. Don't be too jealous cause Hun he is with you, not the girls in his past

Is it normal to be jealous of husbands sexual past???

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