Me and my bf been together for bout 9 months, we r plannin on movin in together for the past 3 or 4 months. I stopped talkin bout it for a month n now he picked it up.

He wants to have a baby, well we want to have a baby, he got me a promise ring 3 months into our relationship, we love each other, we were so happy, I was on cloud 9 the first 6 months of our relationship.

The things is I feel like we arent connected like we were, I still love him deathly, we have fun, we play, we go to the movies a lot...im excited he wants to get our own place n start a family but I feel like hes doin it just to make me happy.

When he talks/text he says "u and me" instead of "us" or "we" or "ours", that bothers me cuz he told me more than once hes not happy n I ask then y r u wit me then he flips n says wat he mean is when hes tired he still does wat I want to do so I can b happy, he works over nite, dont get it wrong, we cant get enough of each other, we have the best times just wrestling n watchin tv. We want to b wit each other, its not the unhappy where he wants to b single, at least I dont think, but im just confused.

But the thing is that hes the one askin me to come over, spend time wit him, go out, cuddle n things, yea I love it but the only thing I can see is him not happy. I dont kno if im explainin this right but I care more than anythin bout his happiness, I kno he loves me, but I cant b happy knowin hes tryin too hard to make me happy when im happy wit us eatin a burger n playin cards.