2 year old tantrum!

Daycare teacher here! Oh toddlers love learning 'NO!'.I think its just important to be consistent with how you respond to him. He will learn that some things he can say no to, but other things there really isn't a choice. Help him learn how to express his unhappiness in better ways. For example, maybe its time to get dressed. Hold up 2 shirts, "which one would you like to wear?" This gives him some choice.(instead of telling him 'wear this one', and him responding 'no!').Tantrums happen to everyyyyone, and it will get better as he gets older and can express himself with words better. Respond calmly to tantrums. Maybe a time out is necessary, but be consistent. Give him the option of calmly saying what's the matter when he seems to get riled up. If I have other tips, I'll come back!

You are not alone!! My 2 year old yesterday threw the biggest fit at the zoo. She was a maniac! I just handled it the best I could and didn't care about anyone else. Sometimes the best way to handle it is to ditch whatever you are doing, pick up that scary toddler and leave. I try not to lose my cool. When they see you getting angry it sometimes fuels their fire. I keep telling myself it's the terrible 2s and she won't act like this forever. Oh and however you do handle it, be consistent. And don't threaten something you can't follow through with

It's a phase! I found that distraction is your friend. Don't stoop to his level and get in a verbal debate, kids love when they get you ruffled! Be firm and calm, don't yell or get upset. For example-if he throws his cup, tell him "Wow, that was a big throw but we don't throw our cups. We can throw a ball outside, but we don't throw in the house." Basically ignore the "No!" and he'll get over it. It takes time and consistency so stick with it!