Pain during sex

Crystal • Hoping for baby #3 but waiting on hubby to get on board. Charting till he's ready
Okay, so my husband & i have great sex. Rough, maybe but i Usally love it. But lately i feel like the outer of my vigina rips during sex. I get wet enough but i don't understand why it would rip if it's lubricated. I once bleed. Is this normal, please help?