My boyfriend usually never goes out and when he does I hope that he would check in like he does and hasn't , should I be pissed or am I being controlling ?

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We have a set of rules kind of...
1. Let me know you arrived at your destination
2. Let me know if something crazy happens (fight, accident type crazy)
3. Let me know if you're too messed up to drive and would like me to come get you
4. Let me know if you're going to out past a certain determined time

It's not a control thing. I'm a worrywart so for me it gives me peace of mind. If he forgets to do 2-4 it upsets me but I don't really get mad. As long as I know he got there safe we're good.

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My bf use to be the same way. He would rarely go out but when he did it was like I didn't even exist. I would talk to him and tell him that he needs to check in more when he's out.

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Just have set rules. Ask him would he be mad if you didn't check in when your out with your girls (even though I'm sure you would check in anyway) lol that's just how us loyal girls are. I always use the old saying "treat me how you would want me to treat you". If he doesn't like you going out and don't want you to go out I figure neither can he. I don't think it's controlling its being fair and equal. And that's the same with everthing else.

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My husband still does this. About once a month he goes off drinking with someone and comes home around eight a.m. Four years and it still drives me crazy. Going out is one thing, but courtesy is very underrated. A phone call or text goes a long way. Bitching got me no where, btw. Best thing to do is return the favor. ;)

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Forgot to mention its 4o clock in the morning and haven't heard from him

My boyfriend usually never goes out and when he does I hope that he would check in like he does and hasn't , should I be pissed or am I being controlling ?

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