Tired of hearing "don't stress".

Ive been ttc for 9 months and so many people say to me (and others ttc) to "not stress" as if that's the reason why I as a woman am not pregnant. It's medically incorrect. Plus, Depression prevents healthy fertility not stress! Otherwise every woman would be pregnant by taking a vacation! Agh, pass this on if you didn't know. It's like me saying don't think about wearing pink. You just did!