Where to Wed!! ??

Shante • Jay’s Mom 🖤 Dames Wife💍 Happy Life ☺️😊
Ok So I did a poll but I don't think that's enough I need to explain... Lol The only thing stressing me out about planning my wedding is where and how to do it. I myself want to do a traditional wedding but friends and family keep telling me no and telling me to save my money, because you spend all that money when just one day and the day goes by so fast. 
Second is Tahiti. Just me and him wed on the island of Tahiti. 
Third, just go to Vegas wed there and spend a week there.
But to me with the second and third choice I feel like we're going to have to spend money anyway because we both went to reception back at home with her family and friends, please help me Lol