I'm 9dpo, anybody else? I'm sad :/ BFN

Massy • Mommy of preemie twins born at 29 weeks with IVF fresh transfer
Ladies please tell me it's too early :/, glow says I can test today but I'm only 9dpo today. Ovia app tells me to test in 6 more days but my AF is due on 10/30-10/31 which is 3-4 days from today :( I'm so sad because I bought a cheapie and decided to tested, like always a BFN :( I want to cry but I'm currently at work, did not use FMU .