Do you orgasm everytime you have sex?

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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and by no means is he bad in bed! We were each others first so we don't have experience! Idk if I just can't or I tense up to much before the big moment but I have never climaxed during sex! Is that bad? Don't get me wrong it still feels amazing but when I play myself I can climax but not when we're having sex! Am I doing something wrong?! Any tips?

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The only way I can climax is if in on top. You have to position yourself so that your clit is stimulated. It also helps if he massages your boobs which is a highly sensitive area and helps you to climax faster. Hope this helps!

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Well masterbating has allowed me to experiment what i like and dislike, my husband and i are each others first as well and trust me it took time for him to make me climax but the best is communication and experimentation not only does he now know what i like, but vice versa as well our sex life as gotten hotter over the years (together 6 years, married 2 years)

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A clímax for a girl isn't the same for a guy.  It isn't like it happens and you're done,  a girl can orgasm multiple times in a row.  So maybe you're just expecting something more

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My best positions for me to orgasm are if he's on top, but his body has to be really close to mine so that he rubs against my clit while going at it. Or when I am on top and I can rub against him in the places that I need. Of if you're doing it doggy style have him rub your clit while he's doing it, or you do it to yourself while he's going at it because you know all the right places to touch!

And for the most part you need to tense up to have an orgasm. I always try to tighten my vagina while having sex and that also helps me get to orgasm and he likes it when I tighten up? 
Or when he is on top doing all the work, you can move your hips too and work with/against his pumps and that always feels nice. 
You should also have a clear mind and just thinking about how good it feels. If you tell yourself your not going to have an orgasm, it'll be a mental block and you won't. Just enjoy everything and go with it!
Hope these tips help! ☺️

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I've never gotten off from actual sex but I don't think that's that uncommon for women. I orgasm when my man goes down on me every time or if I'm fingered. Perhaps we just haven't found the right technique?

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Relax!! Try getting yourself to orgasm on your own and get comfortable with the feeling. Then when you're in bed you can be more familiar with what your body is saying without being inhibited by another person. Relaxing is huge!!

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I've never climaxed either, even while masturbating. . . I think there's something wrong with me lol

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Everytime... no
Occasionally... yes
More getting it than not... no
Most times when we have sex its not even about getting off.. Its about the closeness and intimacy and the fun of being together. There are times that neither of us gets off.. and thats ok. 
Most times, he gets his, we go to sleep, then when he leaves at 3am for work, I finish myself off and go back to sleep..lol

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Sometimes I just let him catch his.

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I've had what some people might consider a lot of sex but I very rarely orgasm internally. Like you, however, I come when I play with my clit. I think with the right experiences, level of comfort and of course the right partner I'll get better at it.