Ok so August 28,2014 my beautiful son Madon-Alexander was born he way so perfect but he was only 23 weeks 1.3 pounds and did not survive.  I'm currently on the pill and everyday I contemplate stopping.  The Doc's tell me to wait at least a year, but Loed knows I just can't. My fiancé and I both agreed to stop Birth control on January 1st. Do you think that's too soon? Should I wait a little infer than that? Or should I wait the whole year? Not to mention he was breech and they had to cut my cervix to get him out ??. I know I need to heal to prevent something like this from happening again but we were so close and it was gone just like that.