Is there a difference?

K • Married, mother of 4 and pup

For those who have been following my post for the last month...

My husband asked me if I knew the difference between knowing you're getting used and feeling like you're getting used...I told him that I thought we were getting used. He said he felt like he was being used. Is there a difference?

We finally have my vehicle back, but her stuff is still in the house. He says she'll be here Saturday to pick everything up. Also said that she wants to fill up the freezer and give me $200, but he wants me to refuse. What would you do?