I honestly dont know if it is from my past realtionships were sec was a chore and there was emotional abuse . I love my boyfriend and am fully attracted to him , I just do not have a high sex drive . I've tried lots of methods to help ..but nothing does its frustrating for both of us and of course makes him feel like I don't want him which is not the case and we do talk about it ! I'm stuck in a rut... once we begin having sex I get right into it ! But foreplay can not get me turned on ... any advise ?