TTC is stressful?

Ebony
Ugh AF came yesterday evening, 2 days earlier than Glow predicted. Sometimes I just wanna cry but I know it won't change anything. Literally everyone I know has children or is pregnant. I've been with my SO for 7 years and I haven't even had any pregnancy scares. This is our 3rd month of actually trying to concieve but I was only on BC for like a year out of the 7 we've been together. Should we see a doctor or actually TTC for a full year before? Idk I just need postive thoughts and if you have a story to share then feel free ?