Getting impatient this month

So my chart shows af due on November 1 previously said the 2nd and I'm 11 dpo. This is my first time ttc but I'm trying for #2 my first was an oops but I love her. But I'm getting impatient waiting to see if af shows her ugly head and wanting to go get some tests. I didn't have any symptoms last time but I'm having some minor ones making it even harder!!! Advice anyone?