Birth Control Opinions

Yuki • Happily in love with my other half.
So I've been going back and forth on if I want to go on birth control, then if I went in birth control which one should I go on. After this hell cramp period I think I may just do it.
 I'm uneasy with going to a male gyno ( the one that my mother goes to so that's who she highly recommends and is on our insurance) I also have this nervousness of having someone other than my other half look at my hooha.. So opinions, advice and general niceness please. I thank you greatly.