So when I had found out I was pregnant, I set up an appointment for 8 weeks as the doctors office suggested. I went, peed in a cup, the doctor did his thing to check how I was doing in there, and I was done until 12 weeks. They didn't check for a heartbeat or do an ultrasound, so now I'm stuck until 12 weeks and am freaking out.

My husband is mad because I don't want to tell anyone until we hear or see the baby is doing fine, and insisted on telling his family; and we have to tell mine next week since it's the only time we will see them before I would be too far along. But I feel very weird that I've done no testing before doing this all...