What to do??!

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So I think I might be pregnant and I talked to my BF about it and like what I would want to do and I told him I don't wanna get an abortion because I think it's wrong but he's like we are too young I'm 18 Turing 19 hrs 17 but I feel like that's our responsibility I just don't know what to do :/

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Keep the baby you made the decision to have sex own up to your mistakes of your responsible enough to have sex then your responsible enough to grow up and be a parent

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If you're not sure, give the child up for adoption.. u made the decision to have unprotected sex, so that's ur responsibility now. Don't get an abortion bcus u were careless. Next time use birth control. Simple.

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Adoption over abortion please consider that

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Have the baby. If you decide you can't keep it, give it up for adoption. Thousands of people are looking to adopt! But I'm sure your parents will help you, after all that's their grand-baby!!

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I will never judge another woman on her decision. I'm pro choice all the way, and I've seen a lot of my friends make this difficult decision. However, if you terminate, please remember to use birth control in the future. Pro choice does not make abortion an appropriate form of birth control. Consider adoption too! There are a lot of couples out there who'd love to adopt. In fact, my aunt had a baby at 20 years old in 1970 and gave her up for adoption since she wasn't able to raise her on her own. In the early 90's the daughter she gave up for adoption found my aunt and now she's been a part of my family's life for almost 20 years! Consider the possibilities! Good luck, and you are NOT alone. Just be sure you learn from your actions. :)

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Nothing wrong with considering abortion. I think it's far better than bringing an unwanted child into the world. It's early days, no different to your body rejecting the pregnancy itself. If you don't 100% want it and know you will love it and can afford it, get rid of it without doubt. Won't be easy but will be worth it. My thoughts are with you.

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If you disagree with abortion don't do it

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Keep talking to him about it. Consider all your options. Like can you afford to keep the baby. Maybe talk to your parents maybe they can advise you aswell. Good luck remember whatever you guys decide don't let other make you feel bad

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You forgot to include the third choice! Adoption! If I were in your situation that would probably be my choice. I don't think I could handle an abortion. I think I'd be able to better deal with You can possibly do an open adoption where the family that adopts your child will update you every so often on how your child is doing.

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You can always do an open adoption, where you pick the parents and still get to be in their lives... Plus there's lot of couples who want a baby but can't and willing to give the world to a child even if its not biologically their own, plus I think you get 30 days to changed your mind and 5-6 months base on your state to make the adoption legally official.... Our cousin had adopt a baby and the baby mom and her family is now a part of my cousin family and they all get along and they invite the mom and her family to every event in the baby life and our family Xmas party as well.. They're greatful and the young mother made the best decision she did at 18 and 5 months prego, my cousin and her husband been in the mom life since she's 5 month prego with ultra sound, lunch, during labor etc :)

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