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Hubby told me yesterday that I am wasting his young years. Because I am not getting pregnant. I had three miscarriages. And he blames me for all of them.  I have PCOS and my body lack progesterone man. Come on. I am trying.  I am going to my appointments, taking meds (pills and shots). What do you want for me?

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No offence but he sounds like a complete ass! Hope you are okay. Chin up don't let him bring you down. X

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He sounds like a king who's waiting for a baby boy to be heir to his crown.... Don't worry about it! You're doing your best to bring a baby into his world. His 'younger years' shouldn't be all about a baby. He should be enjoying his marriage and figuring out how to help you.

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Don't worry about negative comments like that and just because men have already had a child doesn't mean it's not their sperm causing an issue. Sperm is produced every day and if their diet has changed or their environment and work has changed, they get older etc. It can impact on their sperm quality and quantity. He may have poor sperm which leads to a non viable pregnancy.  Don't put all the blame on yourself. He should be supportive of you xx

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You should let him know, (and you can Google this to back it up) that it may NOT be you, but the combination of the two of you. Sometimes both people can be able to have children but because of pH issues with his semen and your CM, or his sperm not living very long and your egg traveling slowly, pregnancy is harder. That's how my doctor explained "Unexplained fertility" to me. She said it's fairly common and can usually be overcome, but that it's usually not one person or the other, but those two people specifically are not chemically compatible for pregnancy.

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Hey vicki,

Sorry to hear that. I know it's hard because the last thing we need is pressure from our partner it's not like we don't already blame ourselves everyday.

I know it's me as he already has children from a previous relationship.

Sometimes things come out wrong and it could just be he is upset and disappointed in not being a father yet.

It's a really horrible thing to say but most the horrible things that get said are in the heat of the moment and rarely how they really feel.

You know that feeling we get every month when we spend everyday thinking about it and symptom spotting and praying it's our month and then AF arrives - that heartbreaking gut aching feeling, I guess they feel the same they just don't know how to express it like we do.

Everytime my guy gets upset or emotional it comes out in anger and frustration.

I hope u guys get your blessing soon and hang in there ?? here anytime you want to talk x x

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I have always told him that it was me. He has a child already. I am trying to give him more kids but it's so far. And he's does understand what I am going  thur. Because he has "SuperSperm".  I am automatically suppose to get pregnant.  It does work that way.

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