Is it ok for your SO to masturbate ?

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If you answer NO please explain why.

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I have an issue if my husband would rather masturbate than have sex.

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I say no only because it would make me feel like I don't pleasure him enough to be satisfied. I'll do it for him if anything! :)

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I'm perfectly comfortable with my husband masterbating (and watching porn, I see that issue come up a lot on these forums). It's not like he's doing it instead of having a great sex life with me. It's in addition to our great sex life.

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I masturbate and am totally satisfied with my SO. Sometimes I get the urge and he is not around sooo...I wouldn't think anything of it if he did the same.

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Makes me feel like I'm not doing my job

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Id rather for my man to masterbate than to cheat on me. An at the end of the day im sure he gets enough from me.. sometimes people just want tl masterbate even if they did have sex... i have.. an it had nothing to do with me not getting enough... i just love the feeling of the big O... ?

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It is healthy,  safe, and fun for both men and women to masturbate. It feels different than sex and sometimes you just want that feeling. Also,  if you are really horny and don't have time for a quickie, it is just easier to take care of yourself. It has nothing to do with how much you please your so. He doesn't love you any less because he masturbates. Let him do it. You could always try it yourself or the two of you could masturbate together. It's pretty hot to watch your so touch himself!

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Its a normal part of a mans sexuality to masturbate. Its healthy to do actually. Although sometimes I feel a man made that part up. Lol.  My husband doesn't though because he has had a problem with it since puberty. And he finally came out and said something last year. He got the help he needed and he's been doing great. Been clean for a year on Nov 11th actually. :) but as long as it doesn't become an issue in my opinion its ok.

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