When would you tell others?

Question

I had a MC at about 4 weeks along in Sept 2014 and my hubby and I are trying again. If I were to find out I'm pregnant this month, I'm wondering when I should tell my friends and family. (AF due Nov 15)
What would you ladies do?

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I had a miscarriage after 9weeks I had told the world and if I had to do it all over again I would yes it sucked to have to tell people I lost the baby but it was that many more people to support me

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I miscarried at 10 weeks, but we were so excited we told most people at about 7 weeks, so then it was torture to have to "untell" them all, next time we are definitely waiting longer and just tell a few closest peeps for support.  On the other side of it, I just found out my brother and his wife are 4mos pregnant! I was kinda pissed cuz I thought we were closer than that but I guess not, AND they didn't even WANT kids!?!  Of course I'm trying to be happy for them, but it's hard after MC and trying for 2 yrs...

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When it comes down to it I think I'd end up telling a few people. But I'd like to think I'd be strong enough to remind myself to wait 12 weeks. Too many best friends knew when I lost at 6.5 weeks. I didn't tell my mom until I was miscarrying and I called her crying. Next time I'd like to keep it a secret between me and hubby as long as I can.

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I would tell the minute I knew!!! After 1 mc, I think I'll absolutely loose it if it happens again so it would be comforting for those around me to know why I've lost it! But better yet share my joy!

When would you tell others?

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