Me and my SO recently agreed to ttc. At first he thought it was best if we waited till we got our apartment but then said it was ok (we started ttc). I told his mother today and she said it was not a good idea and we should wait till we had our own apartment. Now he is saying that's what he told me from the beginning and I told him if he still felt that way then we don't have to try and his response was "I feel like this is a trick question and your being sensitive"