Omg!!!! What would you think???

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Ok I got onto my husband's facebook account earlier this morning, cause he's been being VERY secretively for the past three months. You know leaving the room when his phone rings, texting other people while hiding his screen, not looking me in the eyes when we would talk.  Real sketchy...

Well, I was looking into some of his conversations with his female coworkers, and came across one that has me just (I don't know how to explain it) GOING CRAZY!!!!

She was talking about how lonely she was living alone (apparently her boyfriend doesn't live with her). He gave her his cell number,  and said he'd come over and keep her company she wanted.

What would you think? Could I be reading too far into it???

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He has no business going to a single woman's house to keep her company. You know, the sketchiness. 
Cheating is devastating. It's almost like losing someone to death, the grief.

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He's married, yet wants to go keep another lonely woman company? Pfft!

He's wrong on so many levels.

He didn't even invite you either, pfft!

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I'm sorry but if this was my husband I would've lost it. Come over an keep her company? That line a lone is exactly that a line. A line that is not as innocent as it may sound. You need to confront him.

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Why would he keep her company its defo flirty msgs, she made the first move by saying shes Lonely. As à woman she might as well of said come to mine my boyfriend isnt in. This gets me so mad. Why dont you msg her and ask her why she is talking your boyfriend. And when he goes over to keep her company. Your lonely. I would warn her off, let her know you no.

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Just wanted to let you know that the day after posting this, I was looking at his messages and realized that he had erased this thread.

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I don't even know how you have contained yourself long enough to write a post. I would message her to stay away from my husband, and I would definitely confront him about it.

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Confront him

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In my experience your gut is usually right. Not to mention all the classic "guy symptoms"....I hope ur looking into it too much but it really doesn't sound it. Not to stir the pot but u sure he's out hunting? My hubby always sends me stupid pics of him in his stand when he's stuck in a tree waiting for the big one...text him....or sext him (lol)....might be an answer to ur questions right there..I'm so sorry for ur heartache. I hope all turns out well for u.

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Smack him in the face

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I would take his phone and shove it up his butt.  If he hasn't cheated, it's headed that way. Absolutely not okay.

I would definitely talk to him about it, and he better start figuring out how to restore your trust in him.  If that happened with my husband he would lose all privacy and have to go to marriage counseling with me.

Good luck sister!

Omg!!!! What would you think???

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