Ladies!!!! I need help! My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, and though our sex life is AMAZING im not completely satisfied... I want him to be a little rougher, but he's afraid to hurt me. I keep telling him i'm not made of glass, I won't break. Also he likes me ontop because he says its sexy and hes lazy (hes a local music artist so hes ALWAYS busy) but i cant orgasm on top. It's a VERY rare occurrence and when it does happen its a tiny orgasm that doesnt do anything for me. I prefer him on top its something about him between my thighs, on top of me, in control that just drives me wild. He goes soft sometimes during sex, and he just goes to sleep leaving me high and dry. He's smaller in size, so i cant say anything to him because he's really self conscious about his size. Does anyone else have this issue? If so, how do i tell him without hurting him?