Is it bad that I don't know how to be on top while having sex?

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I have been with my S/O for 5 years now.. Almost 6 and I don't find it enjoyable to be on top. I feel like idk how to do it properly. Any tips?

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Don't feel like you have to do it! If you guys have been together for 6 years you must be doing something right anyway ;)

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This may be TMI but you either lean over him and rock back and forth, or you lean back, hands on his legs and push forward. I don't think you can do it wrong.. Just do what feels good.

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Ugh feel so awkward on top lol.

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I'm so glad someone asked this I always feel like I'm doing something wrong

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I felt awkward for a long time, but hubby always encourages me and makes me feel wonderful when I do it, so over time I've gotten more comfortable with it.

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My man just pulls me on top grabs my but and pulls me towards him so I just put my hands on his chest and grind him till I feel great and he loves it lol ... Now he wants me to do it almost every time lol ...you have to be confident tho and listen to his breathing and if he saysanything in the moment .. Then you know your doing it right ? gd luck darlin ... You've got this ?

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I Don't know how to be on top either but my man just takes over ?

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Best thing I've found, have him lay on bed w his feet touching the ground.. u get on top with ur back facing him. U can use the floor to steady urself & if a wall is close that also. My SO loves it.. I'm always on top lol. My legs hurt after awhile but feels good for both of us so definitely worth it!!

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I felt super awkward about it for about two years but eventually I just got the hang of it. I mostly do it horizontally because when I try vertically he hits my cervix and it hurts really bad. Just hold yourself up with your arms and move your hips up and down slowly quickly or a combination. Definitely pay attention to how he reacts and learn from that.

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Ask him what he likes. I hated being on top becuase I didn't think I knew what I was doing finally I just let me husband take the reigns and he let me know what felt best and now I'm pro lol. I actually prefer being on top now becuase we both get satisfaction from it. I can't be on top for long though becuase I have nerve damage in my hip and it starts to hurt -.- boo

Is it bad that I don't know how to be on top while having sex?

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