To porn or not to porn?

Sophie • A practicing ESL teacher. Studying at Augsburg College. Working at Rec Plus as an after school staff member.
So my bf has been a porn watcher for a while and it greatly bothered me that he liked it. That was 4 years ago. Now he uses it when he and I are too busy for sex (bc of life) and he watches porn w women of my skin color (I'm from India)...and I can't decide to be offended or not! URRGH help me.