Am I crazy to think he might be the one?

Question

My SO and I have been dating for a little over a year now. He's 21 and I'm 19. He's only my second boyfriend (the first only lasted about 2 months. He was a loser so I don't count him?). And he's the guy I lost my virginity to. I really love him. Could he be the one I spend my life with? Or am I crazy To think that since I've never been with anyone else?

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Take in account that you did lose your virginity to him. That has a lot to do with the way you're feeling honestly. Sex is an emotional attachment and as women we think more into sex than guys do. It may be possible that he is though just see how things go. No need to rush anything

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I would agree with Natalie, if you were older. The problem with dating someone when you're that young, is that you are at a point in age where you (in a general term) are figuring out who you are and what you want to do in life. Who you are now, more than likely will be different than who you will be in your 30s, 40s, and your 50s. You ladies that are 30 and over know what im talking about. The two of you are so young and I can understand that you really do love him in the way you understand love right now. You will learn even more versions of what love is and what it will mean to you in your life time. You love him the way he is now and he loves you the way you are now, but people change so much in their 20s that the person that you both fell in love with will not be that way 10 years from now. I think you should enjoy your relationship with him, but try not to think so permanently about your future together just yet :)

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I think it's good too to see what's out there. You're never gonna know what you want until you find out what you don't want :)

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You don't have to be with a bunch of guys to know when someone makes you happy. If you love him and he loves you then don't be shy to shout it from the roof tops!!

Am I crazy to think he might be the one?

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