I personally feel there is nothing wrong with a mother or father lighting up a joint to calm there nerve or relax after a long day at work or with the kids why not as long as your kids are safe and not affected by it to me i rather smoke my joint and still be able to take care of my lo's no different than parents who drink accept marijuana is safer than alcohol  how do you feel? I know people will be judge mental and nasty but I'd like to see different reactions