Anyone consider themselves asexual?

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I was just wondering if anyone could describe their experience and how they knew for sure they were asexual. I feel like I am but it would help to hear other's stories:) Please no hate, just share:)

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I identify as asexual! I am not sex-repulsed and am open to having sex if my partner is interested. I identify because I have never experienced sexual attraction, and I had a hard time realizing that because I didn't know I was missing something I'd never felt. I found it really helpful to read other people's descriptions of sexual attraction! A clue for me was I notice beauty but in an objective way, like 'Oh, that person is objectively attractive,' but it never made me feel aroused or anything, and when I look at someone naked, my thoughts are generally more along the lines of 'Huh, so that's how that works together.' It's a really varied sexuality, so that's just my take!

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Just not to interested in sex. I don't think about it at all, the only time I have sex is if my SO initiates it and I'll try to get in the mood for him. I enjoy sex in the moment of having it but right after its like I forget I like it and I'll not think about it. It's whatever.

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A friend experienced what it was like to be asexual and I was just saying 'that sounds like me' the whole time. I had never thought about it before then but after some reflection I felt comfortable with the label and now I'm happy with it.

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I'm sure I'm asexual and my husband is hyposexual I'm 22 years old and I love to be romantic and cuddly and am happy with who I am I do not think about sex I'm not sexually attracted to anyone I don't want sex and yes my husband wants sex 24-7 we are trying to work on a way for us to be happy together but asexual is nothing to be ashamed about its just the way you feel and go through life if I never have to have sex I wouldn't mind I usually give my husband blow jobs or help him masturbate and I have been thinking of "pimping" him out so he gets the desire he needs and I get what I need I hope this helps.

Anyone consider themselves asexual?

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