I'm sorry but some people on here are so rude . We're supposed to be supportive not rude and cruel .... Everyone is here for one of two reasons to get prego or to not get prego either way we should be helping each other not breaking each other down.... I was brought up to know that no question is a stupid question yes some things I see on here seem like pretty obvious things but honestly if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything... TTC is stressful enough without other woman that you are reaching out to for advice being rude.