Any advise or experience on what to do?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. He's 23 and I'm 18. My parents HATE him like to the point where they want to kill him. They don't think we are talking anymore but we are. We are in love and ment to be... I want my parents in our future togther... idk what to do.

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Why do your parents hate him so much? Usually when parents so passionately hate a bf there is a reason.

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First, have you asked your parents the honest reason why they don't like him? What do your friends think of him? Sometimes when we are involved in a relationship we only want to see the good I'm our so, however I learned the hard way and ignored my family and friends. He became very controlling, emotionally abusive and even stalked me after I broke off our relationship. The best thing I ever did was to question myself about our entire relationship.  Like does he respect me, does he actually know me, does he put as much effort into our relationship as I do, how does he treat his mother and sisters (if he has any) and does being with him make you a better.  If you take the time and think and honestly answer the questions I think you will find either what others see. Sometimes when we are so close we don't want / can't see the signs even though it's right in front of us. I hope everything works out for the best!

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Usually, parents HATING is not a good thing. Try talking to your parents about how you feel. Open up and let them know how discouraging it is that they don't support you. Maybe, you should try to plan a dinner or something to get you all in the same room. Then, let your parents get to know your bf so they can see why you love him the way you do.

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