Should i stop trying after having 2 miscarriages?

Question

I am 23 and my husband is 22, we have been together for 4 years and I had 2 miscarriages,  one 2 weeks and the other 1 month, he wants to try again but I don't want to go threw the pain, what should I do?

Answer

Have you talked to a therapist about this? There are therapists who specialize in miscarriage and loss. Maybe someone will help you sort things out so you can heal. It doesn't sound like you're ready to try again just yet. The good thing is that you are still young so if you waited even a few years, you'd still be on track. I'm sorry for your loss.

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My dear friend got pregnant last November and miscarried in January. Then tried to get pregnant right away and had a second miscarriage. She was pregnant again in April and is now big and pregnant, her baby is due January 8th! It is the most painful thing to loose a child (I've miscarried one), but worth the pain to get the baby you so long for. I would encourage you to keep trying, and if you miscarry a third time to see a doctor. Otherwise like my friend, the third time might be your time! Good luck!

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Hi! I've had 3 and a blighted ovum so I totally understand the emotional roller coaster. My last one was in October and I seriously just wanted to lay in bed from the time I found out..I was so scared. 
It's been suggested that I should get testing and I will if nothing happens or sticks by June. It's a process and it's good to grieve but also understand that you didn't do this. I'm very hard on myself but truth me told this was all science..something went wrong. I suggest talking, venting and crying as much as you want and then when you feel ready trying again. I'm here to talk if you want!! ??

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I wouldn't stop yet. When I had mine, my doctor told me that after two they'd send me to an RE to see if continuing to try would be worth it. Talk to your doctor. Your journey probably isn't over yet. ?

Should i stop trying after having 2 miscarriages?

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