Finger in the bum?

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Why are guys so obbessed with butts? My SO while we get it in try's to stick his finger in my bum he always touching it wants to have anal. I don't get it?

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I don't understand either, my SO does the same. Every time he suggests it I just say "the day you let me do you, is the day we will do me" then he goes away. LOL

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Not all guys are obsessed with anal. My husband couldn't care less about my asshole. Which I'm thankful for cause I'm not down for all that.

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Unfortunately men like holes... If they could screw our ear holes they probably would! :)

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My ex fiancé was obsessed with it too but he was very much a butt man. It was a huge turn on for him. My husband has never asked for anal and I doubt he will, he gets off on giving me oral. He literally can get me off orally and be done without getting off himself. I don't allow that to happen too often though ;-)

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My boyfriends does that too. It is so annoying when is constant like that so if you don't want it then just be straight up. Other than that sometimes if he has been super nice or did something I liked then I might reward him with that.

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I like anal but my personal rule is if u can't show me u know about serious foreplay ur not getting near it cause unlike the other u can't so it like in the movies u gotta take the time to loosen and lube and stretch or it will hurt like hell every time and I'm not going to be hurt.

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My boyfriend jokes about it sometimes, I just can't get myself to even try it.. No thanks!  but he says it's because it's really tight.

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It's a pretty tight hole, so that'd be my guess. My boyfriend doesn't mind it but I love it lol

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I asked a guy friend in college once what the appeal was and the answer was simply this; tighter, warmer.

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Just my opinion. Young men are first obsessed with masturbation.  They achieve their goal or perfect technique then become obsessed with hjs.   That's nice for a bit before the obsession becomes bjs. Then they move on to sex. Which becomes like the forbidden fruit for awhile. After years of wanting and needing that they move to anal. Its like each level is a campsite along Everest that they must reach.

Anal for women is very complicated. If you don't trust your partner or aren't physically stimulated before and during the act it will be painful.

Just my pennies!

Finger in the bum?

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